"Friendly Enemies is an excellent addition to the voluminous historiography of the Civil War soldier. An interesting and fast-paced read, it stands tall and deserves a space on the bookshelf next to the giants in the field."—Nathan A. Marzoli, Army History
"The fascinating themes, good writing, and evocative quotations Thompson provides will make Friendly Enemies a very useful book."—Sarah J. Purcell, Journal of Southern History
"Lauren Thompson’s book has wonderfully brought the meeting of enemy soldiers on picket lines and battlefields into full view. . . . Anyone interested in the Civil War soldier experience and its lasting effects on war memory will find this book an invaluable resource."—Andrew Turner, Civil War Book Review
"In effectively weaving together the wartime history of fraternization with its significant role in remembrance, Friendly Enemies is a major contribution to the scholarly literature of the common Civil War soldier."—Civil War Books and Authors
“A magnificently researched book. . . . Lauren K. Thompson goes straight to the letters and diaries of the rank and file, allowing the reader to see how grisly veterans sought truces to cope with the brutalities of war. Friendly Enemies is both a poignant and practical story of men asserting their humanity in the relentless and unforgiving struggle of survival.”—Peter S. Carmichael, author of The War for the Common Soldier: How Men Thought, Fought, and Survived in Civil War Armies
“This first study of fraternization during the American Civil War reveals that the topic yields more than anecdotes to color campaign narratives—it provides much-needed insight into soldier resistance and survival, trade networks, and veteran memory.”—Lorien Foote, author of The Gentlemen and the Roughs: Violence, Honor, and Manhood in the Union Army
“Lauren Thompson explores Civil War episodes shrouded by myth—those moments when Billy Yank and Johnny Reb exchanged banter, coffee, and tobacco instead of lead. Surveying the entire war, she explains that brave and otherwise dutiful soldiers fraternized with the enemy to assert their individuality. Significantly, she stresses the racial dimensions of these meetings. Only white soldiers fraternized, vowed they could restore peace, and recalled their exchanges years later to foster reunion and white supremacy.”—Jason Phillips, author of Looming Civil War: How Nineteenth-Century Americans Imagined the Future
